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Reasons why Men Enjoy Engaging in Wife Sharing

Wife sharing is a phenomenon that is becoming popular today. Although wife sharing experience focuses on the sexuality of the wife, the women are usually prompted by the husbands’ requests. Wives rarely go to their husbands asking from permission for sex with other men. Men have varied reasons for this desire. The following are some of the motivations behind why men desire to watch their wives have sex with other men.

Sperm Competition

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Some men claim there is a biological response playing out here which affects the sexual drive of the man. After watching your wife with another man, you are prompted biologically have more vigorous, longer sex. You will also have shorter refractory periods between erections, harder ejaculations, and ejaculations with more sperms. After such episodes, most couples feel like they are in heat.


Most folks suggest that we live in a pornified culture where most men have seen pornography. They use it as part of their sexual repertoire. If you use voyeuristic processes in your sexuality, there is some legitimacy to suggest you can incorporate them in your marital sexuality. Watching your wife having sex with other men may be the next step. Or a progression from watching yourselves have sex with a ceiling mirror to watching your spouse with another man.

The thrill of the Taboo

The husband of an unfaithful wife is usually stigmatized in the society. Such husbands are regarded as weak and ridiculed or even beaten. Some men consider these taboos as the thrill for them from the excitement of the naughty and the forbidden.


two men and lady in bedOne reason why some men desire to watch their wives have sex with other men is bisexuality. This plays out in various dynamics. At times bringing in a man to bed with your wife can be a pretext, a bait and switch if you want to engage sexually with the other man. Some men are concerned about being seen as heterosexual but spend an awful time looking for well-endowed men for their wives. Men who focus on the size of the penis of the other men are ideally not straight.

Female Empowerment

Most couples embrace very powerful feminist principles. Some husbands feel a lot of joy at their wife’s increased independence, assertiveness, and confidence which comes from their wives’ freedom to have sex with other men. Some say that through the open sexuality of their wives, they consciously and actively reject social pressures as a couple. Such pressure can suppress female sexuality, patriarchial power and assert monogamy.

Wife sharing today is common amongst most people for various reasons. Above are some of the reasons why husbands choose or desire to watch their wives have sex with other men.…